Memorial Day

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Memorial Day is a day of remembrance of those who have given the most they could give to preserve the great thing we have going here in the United States.  It is surreal to think about all the lives lost in service for our country.  Each one leaving behind a story, a family, hopes, and dreams. 
This holiday also coincides with a significant point in Stephanie’s battle with cancer.  Next week she has her first scan post chemotherapy that will determine if she has any current evidence of disease still in her system.  

Remembering ... Reflecting... on the journey we have had since September 17,2014.  Ten to fifteen surgeries / surgical procedures, countless doctor visits, nearly one and ½ months spent in a hospital bed, a cancer diagnosis, a trip Houston to cancer mecca, bladder issues, poop issues, and a loss of fertility all start to skim the surface of the last 9 months.

As we approach Stephanie’s hugely important scan and we all try to get back to “normal” life, I have been reflecting on how strong my lovely wife Stephanie has been.  Through all of this, she has kept smiling, kept fighting, and remained a beautiful person.  I love Stephanie (obviously) but through the course of this journey with her I have fallen in love with her 10 times over.  There is nothing more attractive on this earth than a strong woman with the fortitude to stomach what she has gone through. 


This Memorial Day is intended for people to remember those they have loved and lost, but it is also reminds us to value those we still have. In addition to respecting the loss of service members, I will remember how lucky I am to have someone like Stephanie by my side.  





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